I'm an average person, living in a much bigger than average city with my husband, and cat.
We have two children: our angel daughter, who was born on September 14th, permanently sleeping after a very sudden and complete placental abruption; a very rare pregnancy complication often fatal to both the mother and child. She has become our guardian angel. She touched a lot of lives for having only lived for 35 weeks on this earth, never breathing air. She taught us a lot about taking life one day at a time and how precious even that one day is. Her name is Fiona Sayuri. We loved her deeply and know she will forever be with us.
Our second daughter was born on October 25th, 2014. She was born almost 2 months premature and spent around a month in the NICU before coming home. She's a handful, but she is our joy.
I enjoy my life here, and I love my friends and wonderful little family.
I have little room in my life, at this point, for immaturity, drama, or any of that crap.
I believe in the inherent good of people until they prove me otherwise.
I'm kind of boring--I'm not a big party girl anymore, I don't drink much, (if at all, and lately have stopped entirely), don't smoke, don't do illegal substances, and prefer a night at home with my hubby and cat. I like to have fun, but have moved on from the single life and/or the party life.
I like getting to know people, but I'm really only going to friend people I know well, so if you are interested in getting to know me, message me. I will NOT accept Friends Requests unless I know you and have asked you to add me, OR you have messaged me and we have talked extensively.
OKAY, apparently I need to put some warnings up:
--I have a massive, and raging, case of: "potty mouth". Don't friend me if this will bug you.
--I am not a Christian. I will take your higher power's name in vain, and not flinch. You, however, might, and if that offends you, or my religion offends you, don't add me!
--I'm Wiccan, with Buddhist and Shinto leanings thrown in. I studied the latter two for the first time back in Elementary school cause it was kosher to do so at my school, and then as I got older I stumbled my way onto the former. Hence what I am today.
--I DO NOT tolerate jokes about sexual assault, mental illness, suicide, etc. Aka, don't be a douchebag.
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